The Good, Bad, Pretty and Ugly Accounts of One Woman’s Weight Loss Journey

The Good, Bad, Pretty and Ugly Accounts of One Woman’s Weight Loss Journey2019-01-04T08:21:32-04:00
Sex, Love and Obesity - Matchlighting

Sex Love and Obesity Part 23 – Emotional Arson – F*ck it, Light a Match

In Sex Love and Obesity Part 22 I introduced you to the concept of Dysfunctional Dissociation. Meaning, several different parts of me are making different decisions at different times and it’s not working out well. I’m not always in agreement
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Sex Love and Obesity Part 22 – Dysfunctionally Dissociative

Understanding Dissociative Identity Disorder and Dysfunctional Dissociation When we left off in Sex Love and Obesity Part 21, my entire life when it came to sex, love and decisions that involved those two things was unraveling at the seams. Every part
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Grief. Recovering from aftershocks.

Grief can literally knock the wind right out of you.Grief is a hard emotion to deal with. Dealing with loss is difficult, we all do it in our own way. The strange thing about grief is that it sneaks up
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Emotional Baggage – Is it Causing Imbalance in your Wellness Wheel?

If you’re feeling lost. Emotional Baggage could be weighing you down.“I’ve already dealt with my emotional baggage.” That’s a lie we tell ourselves to make things better when we don’t like the truth that faces us in the mirror. Emotional
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Dental Health After Bariatric Surgery

Is your dental health in jeopardy after Bariatric Surgery?Dental health wasn’t something I gave a lot of consideration to when I made the decision to have bariatric surgery. They warned me about the possibility of my hair falling out. I
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Remote Personal Training – How does it work?

Remote Personal Training – Skeptical in Washington asks:The new site design for Desperately Seeking Slender has been up for about 2 weeks now. Some of you have already began to use the new “Dear Desperately Seeking Slender” feature. If you
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The Big Drop Bariatric Edition

The Big Drop – Bariatric Edition

What the hell is The Big Drop?You wanna know? I have an answer! The Big Drop is an 8 Week Long Fitness Challenge event at GoGirl Fitness Studio.  It’s an 8-week fitness and nutrition challenge where you get TONS of
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Pandora Williams Paris 2018

2018 – Year of Lemonade

2018 is over and consequentially it is time for a 2018 end of year review.2018 is over and the New Year is a time to reflect back on the year behind us. It is a time to Celebrate the things
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Big Drop Bariatric Edition at GoGirl Fitness Studio

Bariatric Fitness – Is it a pipe-dream career path?

When I am sad, depressed or stressed out I get withdrawn and quiet.Like most of you, these are emotions I don’t deal with well. When I start to experience these emotions I instantly think, “I have to be really careful
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BariLife Hair, Skin and Nail Formula

Hair Skin and Nail Formula – BariLife Product Review

It’s time for a product review!This month we’re going to be talking about the Hair, Skin and Nail Formula from BariLife. Because, I am an honest WLS Blogger; I’ll admit that I am remiss in getting this review published. As
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