Monthly Archives: August 2019

In Sex, Love and Obesity Part 34 we discussed how trauma bonding and a learned behavior pattern of Peter being the person that made me feel better after he had done something to hurt me had left me in a position where I felt like I needed an apology from Peter in order to to find closure on the chapters of my life that had involved him. For quite some time, I thought that [...]

In part 33 of Sex Love and Obesity, Peter had broken up with me and in the wake of his exit from my life, I had found a newfound freedom. I wish I could tell you that the moment Peter walked out the door everything was suddenly fine. But that’s not quite how it works. When you end up in a relationship with someone that is emotionally abusive to you, there are consequences you [...]